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Thursday, 25 October 2012

10种排毒养颜食物





By 柳燕老師的美肌日记


10
种排毒养颜食物


1) 地瓜,所含纤维质松软易消化助排便。

2)黄瓜,可抑制糖类物质转化为脂肪,丰富纤维素助肠蠕动、加快排泄。

3)莲藕,利尿能促进体内废物快速排出借此净化血液。

4)红豆,增加肠胃蠕动,减少便秘促进排尿。

5)绿豆,常食能帮助排泄体内毒素,促进机体的正常代谢。

6)白萝卜,促进新陈代谢和体内毒素的排出,生萝卜排毒优于熟食。

7)黑木耳,含植物胶质可将在人体消化系统的灰尘杂质集中吸附再排出。

8)胡萝卜,含有丰富的胡萝卜素及维生素A和果胶,加速体内汞离子的排出。

9)柠檬,含丰富的维生素C可协助排出体内有毒物质。

10)优酪乳,有助减少黑色素形成达到美肌。






10 detoxifies food

  

1) sweet potatoes, soft digestible fiber to help defecation contained.
2) cucumber, inhibit carbohydrate into fat, rich in fiber help bowel movements, speed up the excretion.
3) lotus root, diuretic can promote the the body rapid discharge of waste to purify the blood.
4) red beans, increase gastrointestinal motility and reduce constipation and promote urination.
5) green beans, and eat it regularly can help excrete toxins, promote the body's normal metabolism.
6) white radish, promote metabolism and discharge of toxins from the body, The raw carrots detoxification better than cooked food.
7) black fungus, containing plant gum in the human digestive system, dust and impurities concentration of adsorbed and then discharged.
8) carrots, rich in carotene and vitamin A and pectin, accelerate the discharge of mercury ions in vivo.
9) lemon, rich in vitamin C can help to rid their bodies of toxic substances.
10) yogurt will help to reduce the formation of melanin to achieve beautiful skin.


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Wednesday, 17 October 2012

5 Tips that make yourself Attractive To Anyone

Recently, I read an article about 5 tips that make yourself attractive to anyone wrote by Chiara Atik.

I like the article and it really true for anyones here.. I would like to sharing the below article and hope you guys will like it :) cheers.

When you’re single and dating, odds are you spend a fair amount of time worrying about your looks. Even someone who isn’t especially prone to narcissism will find him or herself staring at a reflective surface before a date, contemplating their own pulchritude. “Am I good looking?” “Am I better looking than his last date?” “Will she find me attractive?”
It’s a troubling worry, because, you know, we were all sort of born with either Angelina Jolie genes, or … without.
Luckily, science, for once, has some good news. Really good news.

So, there are things you can change about yourself (hairstyle, clothing, physical fitness) and things you can’t (face shape, eye color, height).
Psychology Today’s Dr. Jeremy Nicholson recently rediscovered a 1997 study which sought to discover which physical features would be most attractive to the opposite sex. After surveying a number of men and women, the researchers were surprised to discover that the highest marks went to changeable qualities.

“Their shocking finding was that, by far, the most attractive features fell under the category of ‘self care’. These features were changeable aspects like good grooming, neat hair, nice fitting and quality clothing, good posture, and healthy weight. Essentially, the most attractive features about a person (male or female) is that they put forth some effort to shower, groom, select some nice clothes, stand up straight, and manage their diet a bit. No plastic surgery, major gym time, or extensive overhauling required.”

Really good to hear, right? Sure, a male model is probably going to have a pretty easy time getting dates. But just because you don’t look like a supermodel does not mean you’re unattractive to the opposite sex, as long as you sort of take care of yourself. When it comes to dating, looking neat is more important than looking hot.

So, now that you can stop stressing about that bump in your nose or the fact that your hair is thinning, what should you worry about? Dr. Nicholson has some spot on advice.

1) Grooming

Dr. Nicholson says that grooming is the most important variable when it comes to attractiveness, and can really make or break your chances with someone. Brush your teeth. Comb your hair. Shower. Keep your fingernails neat.

2) Clothing

Again, no matter what your personal clothing style is, neatness is of the utmost importance.
“The research says that three aspects of clothing are required to be attractive – neat, well fitting, and more formal. Put plainly, your clothes need to be clean, pressed, and well maintained.”
Additionally, when it comes to attracting someone, it’s better to be overdressed than underdressed.

3) Posture

The easiest, cheapest, and best thing you’ll ever do for your dating life is to simply stand up a little straighter. As Dr. Nicholson says, good posture is sexy.

4) Fitness

Don’t worry, you don’t have to run out and get a personal trainer for a total body overhaul. You just have to, again, take relatively good care of yourself, which can be achieved with moderate exercise three times a week.

5) Attitude

One of the most surprising finds of the study was that “pleasantness” rated pretty highly among both sexes. This means being happy, positive, and friendly in attitude. In the immortal words of the little orphan Annie: “You’re never fully dressed without a smile.” (But seriously: just being nice shows way more self-confidence and ease than being shy or sarcastic does — and it’s really attractive.)
So, see? You’re already way hotter than you probably give yourself credit for. It’s easy to maximize your physical attractiveness through small changes.
And as for the things you can’t change? They really don’t matter.

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Monday, 13 August 2012

爱自游 印尼巴淡岛两天一夜 Love Travel - Indonesia Batam Island 2D1N


Woke up early in the morning at 5.30am, just to prepare for the anticipated 2D1N trip to batam, indonesia, an island which just approx an hour away from Singapore via speedboat ride.

  

As our house is near to Harbourfront, we decided to take the bus from our house to harbourfront, and then proceed to the cruise center to exchange for our ferry tickets. Quite surprised when we reach batamfast counter whereby there's a long queue at around 7am in the morning !! Manage to get our tickets and proceed to checkin and wait for our boat which schedule to depart at 8.20am.


After approx 1 hour ride, we finally reach sekupang ferry terminal at batam, we took some pics and proceed quickly to the immigration clearence as it's a long queue as usual, once we got out from there, proceed to look for our tour guide and we been asked to take bus no.56. Waited approx 30 mins in the bus for all the remaining people to board and we start our tour.


This 2D1N tour looks more like a shopping tour rather than sight-seeing, as there's nothing much to see in Batam, in which is an industrial island. Our tour guide Heng was a funny guy who jokes around. The first stop we went to a chocolate store and bought some chocs, and then we went to Polo Ralph Lauren factory outlet, he bought a jacket for me as I will need that when we go to Perth next month. After that we proceed to a shop which sells otah, i can say the otah is very delicious, however we are advised not to buy as there's coconut milk in the ingredient in which it can't be kept overnight.






Once we had our yummy otah, we then goto visit diana cake house which sells homemade kuih lapis, we ordered a box of that, and then we proceed to have our lunch. We have a 7 course meal seafood lunch, the food doesn't taste that good and I doesn't eat much, we pay additional $15 for bird nest as desserts.




After lunch, it was raining outside, we skipped the go-kart racing tour, and just passby Mini Indonesia, and we go to a Chinese temple for prayers. After that, we goto some shops which sells dried seafood, followed by batik store. I bought some batik clothes for my parents.



Once all done , we went to Nagoya Hill, the largest shopping mall in Batam, according to Heng it's slightly small than Vivo City in Singapore, nothing to shout about inside, just a simple mall, we been given 1 1/2 hours here to shop, however we spend most of the time chilling at JCo. After that, the last event for today before we being send back to hotel is massage, which is a complementary 1 hour massage included in our tour package. The massage was nice however 1 hour is really not enough. We upgrade from javanese massage to aromatherapy with lavendar oil for $10 each.









After massage, we being send to our hotel - Harmoni One, the largest hotel and the newest in Batam with Greek architecture. The hotel looks grand and huge, our room is spacious with nice bathroom and day bed. After checking in, we explore the hotel facilities, and had our dinner buffet in the hotel. As the previous massage was not fullfilling, we decided to try the hotel massage, and we booked a 90 mins javanese massage (Initially we wanted a 3 hour one, however there's not avail). I was very happy with the massage and we give some tips to the masseur. That's the end of our first day in Batam and have a good night sleep.





The next morning, we woke up late and skipped the complimentary breakfast, instead we pay to have the dim sum buffet breakfast. After breakfast we pack up and wait for our bus to pick us up and send us to Batam Center ferry terminal, which is like 5 mins away from our hotel. As it's still early, we went to megal mall to stroll around and have our last JCo donut and frappe before proceeding to check in and board a ferry back to Singapore.


Cheers
Nikoru Nicole 
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Sunday, 1 July 2012

10 Steps to make youself pretty with make up

Before you begin for a beautiful makeup:
  • Always apply makeup to clean skin.
  • Ensure all the appropriate makeup tools and products you need are ready.
  • Apply makeup in a well-lighted area.
  • Use a magnifying mirror to check your blending and overall smoothness to become a beautiful woman.



Step 1: Contact Lens

If you think your eyes is not nice and not enough big. You can choose a nice & suit contact lens type that matches your beautiful eyes become bigger but if you think your eyes is nice, you may not need to use contact lens.






Step 2: Foundation
Choose a foundation for your skin type that matches your underlying beautiful skin tone then transfer the foundation in dots and dabs all over the face and the eyelids. Blend the foundation down and out over the face. Dab or buff away any excess product. Remember do not apply foundation on the neck or under the chin.

Step 3: Concealer
Use a concealer that is one or two shades lighter than your foundation. Apply it in a small arc around the inside corner of your beautiful eye. Blend the concealer out evenly by dabbing and buffing. Avoid pulling or tugging the skin under the eye. Be careful not to spread the concealer onto areas where you don’t want it.



Step 4: Powder

Dust a light layer of powder over your entire beautiful face and eyelids. Powder is great for touch-ups as the day goes by to dust down excessive shine. Powder with sunscreen must be applied liberally so a thorough application is necessary for a beautiful woman adequate protection. It is best to use a powder with sunscreen in combination with a foundation and/or moisturizer that also offers sun protection.



Step 5: Eyeshadow

Typically, the lightest color is applied to the entire beautiful eyelid and to the edge of the eyebrow. General rule:

The larger the eyelid area is compared with the under-brow area, the darker the eyelid color can be;
  • The smaller the eyelid area is compared with the under-brow area, the lighter the eyelid color can be. Remember, lighter colors bring things forward and highlight while dark colors recede and add depth and shading to become a beautiful woman.





Step 6: Eyeliner

As a general rule, the larger of your beautiful eyelid area, the thicker and softer the eyeliner should be. The smaller your beautiful eyelid area, the thinner and more intense the liner should be. Always draw using one fluid stroke from the inner to outer corner, following the curve of the eyelid. Make sure that the two lines meet at the back corner of your beautiful eyes.





Step 7: Eyebrow Shaping

Use a color that closely matches the color of your beautiful brows rather than your beautiful hair color or a color you think would look better than what already exists. Apply powder brow color using a wedge brush, working in the direction the hair grows. Use a light touch, with short, quick motions, and avoid the temptation to exaggerate the shape of your beautiful brow by arching it severely or extending the brow into the temple area.




Step 8: Mascara

Apply mascara to the upper lashes using long, sweeping strokes. Be sure to begin as close to the lash root as possible and brush up and out. For the lower lashes, hold the wand perpendicular to the eye, parallel to the lashes and brush using the tip of the wand. Use an old, cleaned-up mascara wand to remove any clumping that occurs. Lash curlers should be used before applying mascara for becoming a beautiful woman.




Step 9: Blush

Using a blush brush, apply blush along the full line of the cheek-bone, brushing down and back toward the ear. Always knock the excess powder out of the brush to avoid applying too much blush. Use your sponge to soften any hard edges. Do not apply blush to the temple area, chin, nose, or forehead as this tends to make beautiful skin look uneven and ruddy for becoming a beautiful woman.




Step 10: Lipstick & Lip Liner

Use a lip pencil to draw a definitive edge around the mouth to follow when applying lipstick, and a lip brush to control your application. A standard tube of lipstick makes too wide a mark for some women’s beautiful lips and too narrow a mark for others. If your lips are small, it is best to use a lip brush; if your lips are large, the only reason to use a lip brush is to improve your accuracy, especially with deeper shades such as red.






Essential Beautiful Women’s Tool Tips: Brushes

Good brushes are essential for applying makeup, so what how to go about it?
  1. Use soft, pliable brushes. Avoid hard or stiff brushes.
  2. Use a brush that is the correct size for the area of the beautiful face you are working on. Avoid brushes that are too large or too small.
  3. Remember to knock the excess powder off the brush before you apply the color to your beautiful face.
  4. Brush on the color gently with short even strokes; avoid wiping or rubbing the brush across the face.
  5. Gently wash your brushes every month or so.



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Sunday, 27 May 2012

Maybe的机率 歌词 大嘴巴


歌手:大嘴巴
歌曲:Maybe的机率
作词/作曲:阿弟仔

maybe oh maybe的机率
[chinese pinyin]: maybe oh maybe de ji lv
预计 预计的刺激
[chinese pinyin]: yu ji yu ji de ci ji
爱你不爱你 oh maybe
[chinese pinyin]:  ai ni bu ai ni oh maybe
决定不决定 多神奇多着迷
[chinese pinyin]:  jue ding bu jue ding duo sheng qi duo zhao mi

oh 猜猜看 合拍不合拍
[chinese pinyin]: oh cai cai kan he pai bu he pai
oh 赌赌看 运气的存在
[chinese pinyin]:  oh du du kan yun qi de cun zai
oh 零鸭蛋或是百分百
[chinese pinyin]:  oh ling ya dan huo shi bai fen bai
oh 123奇怪不奇怪
[chinese pinyin]:  oh yi er san qi guai bu qi guai

买或卖
[chinese pinyin]: mai huo mai
赔或赚
[chinese pinyin]: pei huo zhuan
成或败
[chinese pinyin]:  cheng huo bai
好或坏
[chinese pinyin]:  hao huo huai
高或矮
[chinese pinyin]: gao huo ai
丑或帅
[chinese pinyin]: chou huo shuai
美或呆
[chinese pinyin]: mei huo dai
正或歪
[chinese pinyin]: zheng huo wai
快或慢
[chinese pinyin]: kuai huo man
宽或窄
[chinese pinyin]: kuan huo zhai
易或难
[chinese pinyin]: yi huo nan
双或单
[chinese pinyin]: shuang huo dan
喜或哀
[chinese pinyin]: xi huo ai
黑或白
[chinese pinyin]: hei huo bai
女或男
[chinese pinyin]: nv huo nan
恨或爱
[chinese pinyin]: hen huo ai

oh yeah
[chinese pinyin]: oh yeah
你相信直觉 还相信科学
[chinese pinyin]: ni xiang xin zhi jue hai xiang xin ke xue
你所有选择的结果
[chinese pinyin]: ni suo you xuan ze de jie guo
是不是真的有因果
[chinese pinyin]: shi bu shi zhen de you yin guo
我无法透彻(我无法透彻 )
[chinese pinyin]: wo wu fa tou qie (wo wu fa tou qie)
也无法舍得(也无法舍得)
[chinese pinyin]: ye wu fa she de (ye wu fa she de)
态度可能很组合(态度可能很组合)
[chinese pinyin]: tai du ke neng hen zu he (tai du ke neng hen zu he)
我只好依赖行动了(我只好依赖行动了)
[chinese pinyin]: wo zhi hao yi lai xing dong le (wo zhi hao yi lai xing dong le)

oh 猜猜看 合拍不合拍(合拍不合拍)
[chinese pinyin]: oh cai cai kan he pai bu he pai (he pai bu he pai)
oh 赌赌看 运气的存在(运气的存在)
[chinese pinyin]:  oh du du kan yun qi de cun zai (yun qi de cun zai)
oh 零鸭蛋或是百分百(百分百)
[chinese pinyin]: oh ling ya dan huo shi bai fen bai (bai fen bai)
oh 123奇怪不奇怪(hey)
[chinese pinyin]: oh 123 qi guai bu qi guai (hey)

高或矮 丑或帅 美或呆 正或歪
[chinese pinyin]: gao huo ai chou huo shuai mei huo dai zheng huo wai
买或卖 赔或赚 成或败 好或坏
[chinese pinyin]: mai huo mai pei huo zhuan cheng huo bai hao huo huai
快或慢 宽或窄 易或难 双或单
[chinese pinyin]: kuai huo man kuan huo zhai yi huo nan shuang huo dan
喜或哀 黑或白 女或男 恨或爱
[chinese pinyin]: xi huo ai hei huo bai nv huo nan hen huo ai

高或矮 丑或帅 美或呆 正或歪
[chinese pinyin]: gao huo ai chou huo shuai mei huo dai zheng huo wai
买或卖 赔或赚 成或败 好或坏
[chinese pinyin]: mai huo mai pei huo zhuan cheng huo bai hao huo huai
快或慢 宽或窄 易或难 双或单
[chinese pinyin]: kuai huo man kuan huo zhai yi huo nan shuang huo dan
喜或哀 黑或白 女或男 恨或爱
[chinese pinyin]: xi huo ai hei huo bai nv huo nan hen huo ai

lalalalalalalalala
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Saturday, 26 May 2012

Happiness Now by Andrew Matthews

My colleague lent me a book name "HAPPINESS NOW",
written by "ANDREW MATTHEWS" author of million seller FOLLOW YOUR HEART
It is a interesting book with a cartoon can help us to remember the message.
Total pages only 124. After you read this book your life will turned around completely.
It will changed your life around and reading this book was like a helping hand.
It is a great and value book to read it although the prices is not cheap.
I would like to share few chapters which I like it among.




CHAPTER ONE: ONE DAY AT A TIME

(a)  When Life Get Tough

 "How do you survive when your life gets tough? How do you hang on when you are grieving, lonely or broke?"  You can only tackle your problem as you would climb a mountain.
If you go rock climbing - and you get stuck on a ledge - you suddenly focus on the present moment! You forget about the future.  All your effort goes into your next step.  Then your next step Inch by Inch.  Eventually you claw your way out.  The same strategy works for everyday life.  When things seem desperate, you fix your focus on the present moment.  You tackle one problem at a time.  You take a step. You get a little confidence and take another step, and another. Eventually you find that the worst is over. If you were to worry about,
a) everything you need to do in the next month, or
b) everything that could go wrong in the next year, you could go nuts!
But you can handle one day at time.  And whenever 24 hours is tough, bite off five minutes at time.




In a Nutshell
ALL YOU CAN DO IS GIVE YOUR BEST EFFORT UNTIL BEDTIME. LET TOMORROW TAKE CARE OF ITSELF


(b)  Kick the Worry Habbit

Most of us worry.  We worry about our jobs, our children and what the neightbours think! Some people will even tell you, "you SHOULD worry!" But worrying is WORSE THAN USELESS!  Firstly, it attracts misfortune.  Secondly, it is bad for your health!  So what should you do about worry?  Postpone it!  Take action FIRST and postpone worry indefinitely.  That's what effective people do. Whenever you wan to worry, ask yourself, "What is the problem right this second?"  Guess what you will find unless you are in a life-threatening situation, you don't have a problem!  Ofcause, disasters do happen.  Illness happen.  Financial crises happen.  That is no reason to live life like a frightened rabbit.  When crises come, you can deal with them MOMENT BY MOMENT.  It is only when your mind drifts into the future that it crushes you.  And your mind will want to drag you into the future!  Stay in the present!  Do whatever you can do today - and leave worry out of it.  Look at your life.  Has there ever been a situation that you didn't survive?  There hasn't!  You can handle the present.  It is just the future that gives you trouble!

In a Nutshell
WHEN IT COMES TO WORRY, PROCRASTINATE! WHEN SOMEONE ASKS, "AREN'T YOU WORRIED ABOUT THAT?" TELL THEM, "I HAVE BEEN MEANING TO WORRY ABOUT IT - BUT I HAVEN'T GOT AROUND TO IT!" 
(c)  Character

Did you ever look in the mirror and say, "I wish I had a different face, different body and different nose?"  Did you ever look at your life and say, "How come other people are so talented and brilliant? How can I feel good about me?"  Most of us have these thoughts!  But here is the crunch, talent and beauty are very useful - but there are plenty of talented and beautiful people around whom we don't necessarily admire.  And some of them are a pain in the neck!  Many of history's most admired people - like Abraham Lincoln, Mother Theresa and Mahatma Ghandi - were neither beautiful nor especially gifted.  The qualities most of us value above all others are HONESTY, COURAGE, PERSISTENCE, GENEROSITY and HUMILITY.  Take a look at this list and you will find something interesting.  You are not BORN with these qualities.  You DEVELOP them.  Anyone can have them.  If you really want, you can have them!  If you want self-respect, and respect from others,, you don't have to be a genius or a super-model.  You simply work at developing your own honesty, determination, generosity, humility and courage.  It is called "character"

In a Nutshell
HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOU IS IN YOUR HANDS. 
 (d) WHY

My friend John Foppe was born with no arms. But John never asks the question, "WHY do I have no arms?"  The question he asks is, "WHAT can I do with my feet?"  Having watched John eat with chopsticks, I would say, "Almost anything!"  When tragedy strikes, or when we lose everything, or when a lover walks out on us, the question we usually ask is "WHY?" 
"WHY me?"
"WHY now?"
"WHY did she/he leave me for a loser?"
Asking "WHY?" questions can send us crazy.  Often, there is no answer to "WHY?"  Or it doesn't matter why! 
Effective people ask "WHAT?" questions 
"WHAT am I going to do about it?"
"WHAT do I learn from this?"
When the situation is really desperate, they ask, "WHAT can I do, just in the next 24 hours, to make things better?"

In a Nutshell
THE HAPPIEST PEOPLE DON'T BOTHER ABOUT WHETHER LIFE IS FAIR.  THEY JUST MAKE THE MOST OF WHAT THEY HAVE.  AND IS LIFE "FAIR?"  PROBABLY NOT.  BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER WHY!

There have many chapters that I like it alot but I only can share few. I think I'm gonna have one for myself.  This book is selling at the book store name Kinokuniya, Singapore.

The book


Cheers,
Nikoru Nicole 


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Never let you go lyric - faith evans



"Never Gonna Let You Go"
Sings by: Faith Evans


 


If I had one wish, boy
I'd wish you next to me
And it could be in summer, fall or spring, boy
'Cause you make my heart sing
I wanna give my heart, my soul, my love to you
Oh baby
'Cause every day I'm not with you
I'm missing you like crazy
I need for you to...

[Chorus]

I need for you to love me, hold me, touch me
Down deep in my soul, and never let it go
Of the love we share, no one compares to you
I'll never let you go 'cause I really love you so
Oh I...
I'll never let you go, oh no

If you must know the truth, boy
I'm nothing without you
Now I know what people mean, boy
When it's too good to be true
Because you give me joy, good love,
good times, such happiness
Oh yea
And every day I thank the Lord for you,
I feel so blessed
I need for you to...

[Chorus]

If you only knew
What you really do
Ain't never had no one that does it quite like you do
You could spend half a lifetime
Trying to find one like you
That's why I am so glad I found you
I wished upon a star and it came true
Darling, I need for you to...

[Chorus]

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Monday, 7 May 2012

Top 10 tools for girls - become pretty





Actually, it's very easy to become a 'lenglui - pretty girl' like these girls; 







I think most of the girls know how to do. 

Here are the TOP 10 tools you need:



  • Salon hairdo (to make your hair look fabulous)
  • 'Big-eye' contact lenses (to make your eyes look bigger than they are)
  • Makeup and fake eyelashes(especially eyes, to make them look even bigger)
  • Learn how to make faces. (especially the blur-look, pouty look, sultry look)
  • Learn how to pose, sexy pose, innocent pose, cute pose, etc.
  • Don't bare skins in all photos, but when you bare, make it a point.
  • Asians with cleavages are rare, so bare cleavages. Use padded bra/Nubra if possible and make the cleavage as attractive as possible. Baring legs are good, but cleavages win.
  • Use PROFESSIONAL DSLR CAMERA to take photos, preferably by a good photographer or learn yourself. The quality is A LOT BETTER than conventional digital cameras. Learn which angle takes your best shots.
  • LEARN PHOTOSHOP. There are no magazine/online models that aren't touched up by Photoshop.
  • Get a rich guy (sugar daddy) to sponsor everything, or pretend you're rich (at least when you're taking the photos). Sit in a nice car for background, wear nice clothes, and designer handbags. Go travel and visit lots of places, take photos and make funny faces. 
P/S: These 10 rules only apply to ordinary girls with average body and average skin type. If you're fat or have bad skin condition, you will need to do everything it takes to get thinner and flawless fair skin.


So if you've applied everything said above! There are no ugly girls, only have lazy girls!

Cheers,
Nikoru Nicole





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Thursday, 26 April 2012

The other woman - Short Story



Title: The Other Woman - A short story

After twenty-one years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping the spark of love alive. A little while ago, I started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife's idea. 
"I know that you love her." She said one day, taking me by surprise. 
"But I love You!" I protested. 
"I know, but you also love her."


The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who had been a widow for nineteen years. It was only possible to visit her occasionally due to the demands of my work and my three children.


That night, I called to invite her for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well?" She asked. 

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. 
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you." I responded. 
"Just the two of us." 

She thought about it for a moment then said, "I would like that very much."


I drove over to pick her up on Friday after work. I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She was wearing a smile on her face that was as radiant as an angel's. 

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed." She said, as she got into the car. 
"They can't wait to hear about our meeting."



We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cosy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read the large prints. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

"It was I who used to have to read the menu to you when you were small." She said. 
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favour." I respond. 
During the dinner we had a pleasant conversation that was nothing extraordinary. However, it helped us catch up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.



As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you". 
I agreed.



"How was your dinner date?" Asked my wife when I got home. 
"Very nice. Much more than I could have imagined." I answered.


A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. 

An attached note said, "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn't be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you."


At that moment, I understand the importance of saying, "I Love You" in time and to give our loved ones the time that they deserved. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve because these things cannot be put off to "some other time".



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Thursday, 19 April 2012

First Lady - Missing You (My Favor' Song)


This is my favorite song sings by First Lady, Title of Song: Missing You.
I make it as a video for myself with my picture and insert lyric on my picture. I think is nice :)
This song is a really sad song, it is a song about she lost someone that really special in her life and is describe how she feels.


This is the Lyric,

Things will never be the same without you…

What did I do to deserve this
I didn't even get one last kiss
From you – oh baby
God took your love from me
He needed an angel so it seems
I need to feel your hands all over me
I need to feel you kissin me
I need to feel you holding me
I need to feel your touch
Cuz I miss your love so much
And I… can’t keep on living this way
I need you here with me
Why could he take you away... from me

(Chorus:)

It's hard for me to tell you I love you
As I'm standing over your grave
And I'll know I'll never hear your voice again
Why did you leave me
Why couldn't you just stay
Because my world is nothing, without you
Now I don't know what to do with myself

I would've given you anything
Just to make you happy
Just to hear you say that you love me one last time
I'd go to hell and back over and over again
[From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/0-9/1st-lady-lyrics/missing-you-lyrics.html]
Just to prove to you, how much I need you here
There is nothing that I wouldn't do
I cry for you… I lied for you
And there's no doubt that if I could take your place in heaven
I would die for you… yes I would
I would rather give up my life
Then to see tears in your eyes
I can't stand to see you cry

(Chorus)

I just don’t know what to do with myself
I can’t stop looking at those pictures on my shelf
Knowing it was just one week ago, stood there and took that picture
There just one thing that I want to know
Why would god want to hurt me so bad
Does he know how much it hurts to be missing you
Baby, I’m missing you… baby I’m missing you

I love you… ooh… god damnit I love you
Why did he did he take you away,
Love me…because I love you so…
I miss you so much baby… I just can’t go on baby




NIKORU NICOLE
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